Katara leaned forward on her elbows, "Buffy, you've been here longer than I have. And I know some things stick with you more than others, but the important part here is that while she might have waved the gun around? No one was hurt. If you're going to try to take responsibility for what she did, that's one thing - it's not a true thing, but I can understand it."

Oh boy, can she understand it.

"But if you're going to take responsibility for what she could have done too, then you're taking on too much."